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Unemployed MEN!

This may be a sensitive topic for some. I know for me it’s kind of touchy; I’m literally cringing as I write this, but it needs to be addressed.

I am in my 30’s, and in my past, I dealt with unemployed gentlemen (when I was in my 20’s). I have recently dated a guy who is also in his 30’s and jobless. He tried to take me on an inexpensive date, or he’ll tell me we can’t go anywhere because “he doesn’t have it.” Needless to say, I don’t go on dates with this guy anymore.

I’m cringing as I write this because I really don’t and can’t understand a GROWN MAN not having a job. I am digging deep within me, trying to find some sympathy, but it’s nowhere to be found.

Once, we went on a date to Olive Garden, where I was only allowed to eat the salad, and he ate the soup. The total for the meal came out to around; I think $10.00. The part that really got to me is he didn’t leave a TIP! I said something about it, and he still didn’t budge. Okay, so I know you’re thinking, “why didn’t you leave a tip”? well, guys, I didn’t have cash on me; I actually told him that he could have given me the cash and let me pay with my card so that I can at least leave a TIP.

We went on on another date; the lady who sat next to us at the bar paid for our drinks. Guys, as soon as she offered and paid, he hurried up and gathered our things to leave. I think he did that so he wouldn’t have to pay for the next round of drinks.

My personal feelings about a jobless man 

My personal feelings about a “jobless man” are as follows; no matter what, you should be bringing in some income, rather you have to scrub floors or flip burgers. “Can I get a AMEN”!

No woman should have to carry the responsibilities on her own because her man is an aspiring rapper or singer or because he can’t handle someone giving him orders.

In conclusion, GET A DAMN JOB!


Girl talk, relationship

Relationship Separate Homes

I have a question… Can you be in a deep relationship with someone and live in separate homes? “I’m asking for a friend“.

Honestly, how can you keep the sparks flying if you are around each other 24/7?

Lets look at the Cons

  • you will have to explain your every move
  • Having someone energy around you all day will interfere with your own vibrations.
  • The more you guys are around each other the less you are excited to see each other.

I may be speaking from a single mind frame, but on the other hand the fact that I am single may be the reason why I am able to think outside of the box. “shrugs shoulders”.

Girl talk

Girl Let’s Talk About Dating Over 30

Let’s talk about dating in your 30s. My question is, should we date men that are older than us to get better results? The reason I’m asking is because since I’ve been divorced dating has been horrible! The men are either too into themselves, too boring, orrrr they’re are just pure manipulators. Am I wrong? One question men ask on dates that gets under my skin is the infamous ‘what do you like to do for fun’? I know it’s weird but if I were to be honest with them I would come off as the most boringness person in the world. Since being divorced i’ve just now found a little piece of my self, so I’m still a work in progress. I say all this to say when I’m asked that question my answer is ‘nothing’.